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Try chatting with her in private a little more often. Let her know things you like to do, movies you like, what you like to eat and things like that. She may think your husband will want to join in or get in her way. You'll have to reassure her that you're allowed to have a separate social life away from him. Make sure you compliment her occasionally on her outfit or hair or anything else you can find that will let her know of your attraction to her. Don't ever feel like you're not good enough or pretty enough because I'm sure she already finds you good enough. Let me know if you need any other help sweetie. Julie
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i don't think my husband would like it if in case he finds out. i attempted to tell him about these things but he took it for granted. saying am blowing things out of proportion. everytime i think about what he said, it makes me believe it too. then, it confuses me even more. i can go out with friends too, just as he knows where i am going and who i am with. am not from here originally and we have different culture. he's protective, yeah. anyways, back to her, am gonna wait for her move to me, if she will... i'll wait and wait. and if she don't, then i think it's best for me to keep it myself and move on.
i appreciate your help and time ms. julie. i don't have anybody to talk about these things. i'll let you know when something would come up.
thanks!
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