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Can't get over my Him..
female/ 16 okay so recently me and my ex boyfriend we'll call him "trey" (not really his name)have been arguing a lot he lied to me about having a girlfriend and we did a couple of things (sexual) and i guess he told a bunch of people what we did.. so i got mad and stopped talking to him.. i ignore him and act like he's not there i know i'm doing the right thing but i feel so bad about the whole situation, i dont want to be his friend because i know that if i become his friend then we're going to be friend with benfits and i dnt want that. It's just hard for me to ignore him like that just because i still love him </33 it's crazy i want him to love me too but i'm just not sure if he ever loved me or just loved me for my body? i want to find out if he really love(d)(s) me. i just want to know.. any advice on what i should do? oh and i'm not sure if this helps but if he didnt love me do you honestly think that he would cheat on his girlfriend to be with me or at least mess around with me?
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Give your mind time to break this situation down and realize that you dont need him and you can find someone else to love because he definately doesnt
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From My understanding this guy cheated on you? right. Honestly if he cheated on he isn't that great in fact he's horrible. And you recently broke up there hasn't been enough time for your mind to process that this guy is a total jerk.
"Time heals all wounds"
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He didn't love you, You were just his booty call.
When a guy cheats on a women it doesn't mean he loves them more or less the their current partner. I wouldn't be friends with the guy, He doesn't deserve your friendship at all. You have no reason to feel guilty he was in the wrong. This guy betrayed you, disrespected you and lied to you. Yes, It's a great thing you are ignoring the situation and moving on with your life you are showing him and other people who the bigger person is. Stay away from him he is bad news and the truth is karma can be a real bitch which I'm sure he will eventually get his half, It will eventually catch up too him. I would keep your distance you don't need assholes in your life put this all behind you and focus on meeting someone who will treat you right.
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