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I hate my parents shit.
I babysat for my parents from nine p.m. until 3 a.m. My baby brother is nine months old. He woke up at midnight and did not go back to sleep even when my parents came home. My sister and I do not do good with my brother all by ourselves. My parents were all the way across town. The baby cried for two hours straight and did not want his pacifier or bottle. We did not hear anything from my parents until 3. They wouldn't answer their phones and came home TWO HOURS after I told them my brother was screaming crying nonstop.
They came home and did not have any sympathy at all. They told me I'm the babysitter and I needed to handle it, yet they know I'm not good with him. They treated me like the enemy, arguing with me what time it was and praising my sister, and refusing to acknowledge all the work I did taking care of him.
I am so sick of my parents. Every time I do something nice for them they never appreciate me, and I can never do anything right. They expect so much out of me and I hate their shit. They don't ever acknowledge anything about me. They always neglect me and hurt me physically and mentally.
I am tired of this. I feel ugly and useless everyday of my life. I feel like I am worthless because all they ever do is bring me down. I try talking to them but they won't listen.
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i used to have the SAME problem with my mom, i would do so many things for her without her asking me to and she would never notice. if i made the tiniest mistake (i mean, if i even left a glass on the counter), she would flip out and yell at me. we had a very crappy realationship, but one day i just decided to sit her down. i told her to please not say ANYTHING until i finished getting out what i needed to get out. she listened as i told her how i felt. and at the end we talked about it. we talk everyday now. sure i get mad at he (offten), i just go sit with her and talk about why were having these problems. so just tell your parents how you really feel and dont hold back, let it out and see how they respond. you all should talk about your feelings together - i bet it will help (:
let me know how it goes !
~Alana*
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Hi,I'm old enough to be your grandfather. I'm sorry you are being treated the way you feel you are. Let me assure you you are not ugly or useless, that I'm sure of.
As to your feelings of being abused. No child should be physically or mentally abused. Mental abuse is hard to prove; physical abuse is easier to prove as it leaves marks.
The best thing fro you to do is to talk to a teacher or your school principal about what is going on at home. They are legally obligated to report abuse to the proper authorities. If you have bruises, regardless of where on your body they are show them to your teacher, Principal or school nurse.
Your parents should not have left you home with a screaming infant for over two hours. My advice should this ever happen again; call your parents and tell them that they need to call you back and tell you what to do. If you don't hear from them in 10 minutes your calling 911 for help.
I wish I had a better answer for you or more help to offer you. The best answer is the one I have given you which is to talk to one of your teacher who you trust or the school principal. You have a right not to be abused; physically or mentally.
Trust me when I say you are a beautiful caring person; if you were not you would not have written to us.
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