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Do I have a reason to be annoyed?


Question Posted Friday March 11 2011, 5:11 pm

I'm a 14 yr old chick.
My mom and I usually get along, but if I'm up late doing homework or get anything under an A in school she flips. I try to talk to her and explain what happened but she's always angry.
For example:
Me: *working on an essay kinda late*
mom: why are you doing that so late? (came right on into my room)
Me: I'm doing the changes you told me to...
Mom: (in an annoyed snotty tone) I don't like you putting off your homework (false) this late. You should've had it done earlier.
And this evolved into an up-till-11 thing involving me her and my dad, and he agreed that she was being a little mean.
Second thing, I have no personal bubble. She comes into my room without me letting her (whether or not I'm in there or the door is closed), she seems to think it's fine to sit on me (she is not a small woman and I ask her to stop), and she always slaps me on the arse which makes me very uncomfortable.
I know I seem bratty about it but it's becoming incredibly frustrating. How can I talk to her? Thank you answerers.


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GradingCurve answered Sunday March 13 2011, 10:51 pm:
Your mom is a bully. And yes you will be annoyed. But the worse thing is it happens inside of your home rather than outside of it... Some parents have nothing else to do.. You're busting your ass to keep your grades up and maintain sanity. I'm not sure what you can do at 14 but.... at least you have certain options left.

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