So my mom hates me & its not joke I do my laundry clean the whole house & help her take care of my baby sister. But when I ask her if I can go out with my friends she says "NO!" & locks me in a room with no windows or doors. Only one that is locked from the outside.
How can I get her to love me or trust me?
You say you help out, and so this is good. It may be that your mother is in a bad place in life? Has she always been like this? Or is this very recent?
Whatever the excuse however, the fact that you are locked into a room, with no exit, no windows etc, can be classified as torture, not to mention its bad parenting.
My recommendation? As hard as it may be, you may try speaking to her. However, this might not work. If not, I would recommend call your local Child Protective Service, or similar local charity. This may be difficult for you because its your Mom. You obviously love her. But sometimes you need to need to make such hard decisions, as it may mean your mum gets the help she needs, which will benefit her.
sunshine1232 answered Saturday March 5 2011, 3:13 pm: Just because your mother isn't allowing you out with
your friend's doesn't mean she hates you or doesn't
love or trust you if your curious why she isn't
allowing you out then i think you need to sit her
down and ask her you won't know unless you speak up
and ask if you don't then you'll continue to wonder
and won't get a answer there has to be a reason
why she isn't allowing you out i don't think she'd
not allow you out without giving you a reason why i
think you should continue to do your laundry
clean the house help with your sister your mom
will appreciate you helping she won't have to do it all by herself by you lending her a hand and helping you'll be able to gain her trust and prove to her that your responsible :) [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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