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I have a boyfriend. He had a girlfriend before me.And he loved her since 7grade.. now his a freshman and they broke up 2months ago&&now his going out with me. But i don't know if he really loves me&&he is honest with me.
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To be completely honest with you.. no, he does not "love" you. For one, you have only been dating for two months and his previous relationship is still on his mind. I don't know the guy so I can't say if he's over his ex-girlfriend or not, but when a couple breaks up after dating for a while - it's hard to get over the heartbreak. Give him time and see what he's really about.
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If he is honest with you, then you have to trust him when he says things to you.
Lots of people lie. He might be one of those liars, but if you want to be with him, then you need to trust that isn't a liar.
It's that simple. Trust and respect means telling people the truth, and believing people what they tell you.
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Alot of people who have been in a long term relationship that abruptly ends and very soon after gets involved in another relationship may be on the rebound. I don't have enough information to say whether or not this is the case, however there are usually some signs that you will notice if your guy is on the rebound.
What you want to look out for is frequent text messages or phone calls from the previous girlfriend or him acting strange when he gets phone calls or text messages, such as walking away, keeping the phone call very short, or saying that it was nobody when you ask who called. If it is her and he tells you, he may say that he still cares for the person but are just friends. This contact may indicate that emotionally they are not ready to move forward in another relationship.
If he starts becoming secretive and lying to you about where he is or where he is going and with who, then he may not be ready for a serious relationship.
Dous he still have pictures of her in his wallet or stuck on his bedroom wall?
If he suddenly stops returning your phone calls or makes alot of excuses as to why he can't hang out with you, he may not be ready for this relationship.
Though these signs are not a guarentee that he is on the rebound, it is something to look out for.
Take your new relationship slow and if it is for real, your relationship will continue to grow.
I wish you the best of luck.
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