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Question Posted Wednesday March 2 2011, 12:19 pm

Hey ,I went out with a guy and it turned out that my best friend loves him !
When we broke up .. i was sad so he asked to date him again but I said no bcz i didn't want to lose my best friend !
But that wasn't what she would do .. she told him she loves him and they're getting closer !
I asked my mom for advice she told me I should forget that boy , I don't trust he words , why should I be the one who gives up ?!


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TheBlackbyrd answered Wednesday March 2 2011, 8:47 pm:
You are not giving up. Nor should you. Look, I can understand why you may feel down about it. But look at the world you have around you. There are plenty of relationship opportunities out there. You just need to be patient and observant. As for dealing with the guy, You should try to forget about it and think of other things that may make you happy until you find someone else. Hope this helps.

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Ginguhh answered Wednesday March 2 2011, 8:09 pm:
Honestly,

If he would do that to you, then forget him. And if your best friend would do that to you, forget her.

She doesn't sound like a very good friend if she's trying to go out with him after you had just broken up. (Girl Code: Never NEVER never EVEERRRR date a friend's ex-boyfriend!!)
I have lost friendships because of this, I had two people I was previously friends with (not best friends, but we were all friends) and one had dated my ex (who I still had feelings for at the time and we were talking again) and now another one is currently dating him (we were talking and they were talking (which I didn't know at the time)).
So now, I'm no longer interested in my ex-boyfriend whatsoever because I don't dig sloppy seconds.

So same goes for you, can't believe your friend is doing that. Get better friends.

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