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Cotd.( cheating boyfriend)
First of all, How do i inbox you? I am kinda new at this so I really dont know how to.
I hope if it is not a problem if I write to you.
I really need help.
I am kind of attached to this guy.. before I knew this side of him, WE had an amazing time together ..thats what makes me hard to believe he could actually do something like this to me. I used to consider him my best boyfriend ever. He would do everything just perfectly :) and though ofcourse we were together barely for three months it felt a long time to me cause we used to meet atleast twice a week or even more often most of the times!!
Thats why it is so hard for me not to get over him .I dont know what to do.
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At the top of my column, there is a link that says 'Ask A Question' and that is how you inbox me. You've been doing it properly.
It's definitely not a problem for you to write to me. This is an advice site, and it's what I'm here for. If you need anything, I will listen and try my best to help.
I completely know where you are coming from. It is hard to get over people sometimes. It can be such an easy thing, but when what you had was special, the connection is harder to break.
What you need to do is remind yourself of what he's done to you. He may have been nice in the beginning, but remember, he cheated on you. He didn't respect you enough to remain faithful to you. When you find yourself wanting to go back to him, or not being able to let go, just think of what he did. You'll remember how it felt, and you won't want to be with him.
Getting over him will be a hard process. It won't be easy. Just take some time for yourself. Go out with friends. Start a blog, maybe pick up a new hobby. If you don't have a job, apply for one. Do anything to keep yourself occupied. The more you do, and the busier you are, the easier getting over him will be.
I hope you do manage to get over him, and that you don't go back to him. If you do, you are only setting yourself up for unnecessary heartbreak. Be smart about this, because you are the key to the changes your life can go through. If you need anything else, just ask.
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