Thank you Julie, for a really helpful response. Are you suggesting this "trial person" should know my intentions? If so I wouldn't know where (and how) to begin to find someone to start this experiment with. certainly can't use any of my existing friends
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? julie75 answered Tuesday March 1 2011, 4:25 pm: I totally understand your need for discresion. You should find someone that you've seen casually at the grocery store or some other place you frequent. It should be someone you get the vibe from that might have been checking you out or have an attraction to. Your other option is to go on craigslist and give a detailed description of what your intentions are. After you've found someone you think is real, you can friend them on facebook and let your husband know about your new friend. That way when you want to go out on your date with her, he won't be suspicious about your true intentions. Any other help, please let me know what I can do for you. Julie [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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