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i really like him..did i blow it?
i'm 17/f and he's 19/m
so the other night i hooked up with a guy i've kinda been crushing on for like years. he goes to school an hour and a half away so i kinda rushed things more than i would if he was to live closer to me. we did everything except sex, which i'm glad we didn't. but i'm just wondering if i ruined my chances with him. he's a really nice guy and after we hooked up he told me to text him when i got home to make sure i got home safe and he held my hand while i was..ya know haha. we text a bit but i feel like i'm always the first one to text him but he shows signs of interest for me and sends me alot of smileys and winky faces haha. so my questions are, what goes through a guy's mind after a hookup? what are the chances of him coming back?
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If you feel like you're always the first one to text him, then your doubts are correct. Let him text YOU!!! If he doesn't text you as much as you text him, then there can be multiple reasons why. Moreover, you don't want him to think you're on your toes for him, making sure to make a conversation with him, etc. Remember, you want to be desired you don't want to desire :) Try not texting him for some time, and see if he wants to communicate with you. Let him grow interest. Although I must say it seems like you guys rushed things a little. Just slow down and don't live too fast next time you meet a guy you really like. After all, he's not the only fish in the sea :)
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I've been in your same position. Chances are, you did blow it. However, it's not your fault! You both went into it rushing. He may be a nice guy, but if he's not showing any more signs of interest after the hookup, then you should get out of this relationship while you haven't formed any deeper feelings for him.
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Did you blow your chances? Possibly, You two fooled around early on and weren't dating which would generally give any guy the wrong impression. Hell, Maybe you got lucky and find one of the few decent ones that aren't an asshole but the chances of developing a relationship is slim considering what was done and the fact he lives so far away. Long distant relationships are stressful and most of the time unless the relationship has serious commitment and goals towards living with one another likely it won't work. His smiley faces are probably his way of keeping you seemly interested for his next time around and that is to get possible ass. Sorry to be blunt, But sometimes the truth hurts.
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