Question Posted Saturday February 19 2011, 8:53 pm
i have been with my girlfriend for awhile,how do i know when she is ready to have sexual contact?
13/m
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskSinz answered Sunday February 20 2011, 3:37 pm: Well to be honest i'm 16/f and a if your girlfriend is the same age as you I don't think she's ready. Your too young to be thinking about taking your relationships to that level that said obviously when your ready then its okay because no one wants to regret their first time. As for knowing when shes ready, i don't think she is but then again i'm not her, you could try asking her but not like do you wanna have sex? just bring the topic up, ask what does she think about sex? And what would ideal first time be. Then she could possibly say she would like to have it with you, or tell you she's ready or when you do things it could lead to that and if she doesn't stop you then she might be ready but don't force it. Bcus honestly i think your quite young for sex, maybe wait a couple more years? Hope this helps xx [ AskSinz's advice column | Ask AskSinz A Question ]
Cux answered Sunday February 20 2011, 12:56 pm: If she tells you she's ready, then she thinks she's ready. Personally, being 13 is kind of young to start having sex, but if you think you're ready, then I guess no one is going to stop you.
All I can say is please protect yourself. Use a condom. Educate yourself about the dangers of unprotected sex, teen pregnancy, etc.
Hitoast answered Saturday February 19 2011, 11:10 pm: You'll know when she tells you herself. If you pressure her into it, she'll probably regret it. Wow, it still astounds me how young kids are wanting to have sex these days. I agree with the person below me, you have your whole life to do these things. [ Hitoast's advice column | Ask Hitoast A Question ]
ASAPcamille answered Saturday February 19 2011, 9:05 pm: If she is 13 as well, then she is not ready for sex.
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