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fear of liars
16/f
ive been asked out alot by really cute guys that i like but i always end up saying no! i have this werid fear where no matter who it is i think their lying or just joking or its a dare by their friends and im the idiot falling for it. i dont want to be single forever but i cant seem to help it no matter how nice the guy is in my eyes i seem to only see liars! what should i do to get over this fear because its starting to creep up on how i view my friends too help!
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Not all guys think the same way, There are decent guys out there too.
If you judge someone based on what the thought of them possibly being liars, You will never truly know what is out there. Change your train of thought, Sometimes in order to find something you have to give it a chance.
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Unless someone gave you reason to suspect they were lying to you odds are they aren't. Don't judge all guys the same way based on a few negative experiences. Odds are they really like you.
If they ask you out tell them what other guys have done with lying and that you won't date anyone until they show you they are genuine. Then you let them prove they are trustworthy and right for you. But yes, let down your guard or you'll miss a great catch.
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