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sexual thought and feelings toward my grandma
Is it okay to have sexual thoughts,dreams, and want to make love with my grandmother. I dream about her all the time. i know this is wrong. i would never act on it but i always seem to think about her. I have even gone to the point of asking her if she would help me with a question. when she said yes i pulled my hard private part out and asked her if it was big or not. I had a ex g/f tell me i was small and it really was hurting me. She looked and answered my question . She would never cheat on my grandpa but what can i do to make these toughts go away.
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You are suffering from what in medical terms is called the Oedipus complex: "The desire of the child, generally the male child, to have sex with a parent of the opposite sex." This is quite common among male children especially when going through the first stages of puberty. The fact that you have chosen your grandmother over your mother falls within the definition of the complex.
As to what you can do to make these thoughts go away: You can talk to your schools guidance counselor and be referred to a therapist who can help you or talk to your family doctor who will also refer you to a therapist for talk therapy.
Neither your school guidance counselor or doctor will think less of you, think your strange or weired . What you are feeling is a common occurrence in all children but more so in boys.
If you are not already doing so masturbating to a fantasy will help relieve some of the pent up sexual anxiety you have. To resolve your problem will require some help from a medical professional such as a therapist to help you come to terms with this issue.
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hi,
it isn't sick and twisted. I take it you are a teenager otherwise it would be kinda sick and i would advise you to go to the doctors to be referred to a counsellor.
But if you are a teenager then your hormones are here there and everywhere and you get weird feelings that you can't control. Mostly it is someone older and more wise or someone you spend your time with a lot. I am not really sure how you can make them go away maybe keep yourself busy so you don't have time to think, talk about this with someone if you need. Your ex gf has obviously belittled you and ruined part of your confidence then maybe your grandma makes you feel better. Talk to someone about this there nay be something deeper than what you think.
hope this helped
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Just tell yourself the complete truth,such as ; why am i thinking about my grandma this way? this is just sick and wrong,why cant i think about someone my age this way? ask yourself this and itll just shock you or in other words youll agreewith these thoughts and just leave it,just like when i used to laugh at things that wernt really funny lol itll just be very random when i just start laughing,i just ask myself why am i laughing? and i stop laughing,because theres nothing fuuny about why im laughing.haha.
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