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To Marry or Not to Marry
ok so I dated this guy for 3 years and it was great in the beginning but it ended terrible and we been seperated for 2 years now and he came to see me from a different state just for my birthday and he asked me to marry him I kinda want to but then agian I wanna no hes changed but i dont want to keep him waiting so long he moves on plus my dads opinion means the world to me and he doesnt really like my ex and telling me i aint aloud to marry him idk what to do i feel trapped in a age with everyone pulling at me please help!!
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the only way to know he's changed is to take the time to observe how he lives his life these days. That will take a while. So no, don't marry him, but start looking at his life and how he conducts himself. I'll tell you one HUGE thing that could win your dad over. If this guy went to your father and, man to man, explained himself and told your father what he is all about and why he cares for you, and ask for your hand in marriage. If he would do that, that says a lot about his character. If not, well, that's a red flag. It says he doesn't care about the things that are most important to you.
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If you have been seperated I would say no. Marriage can wait. Get to know each other all over again before getting married. I got married young and pretty quick and for like 2 years it was the hardest thing I have ever done.
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