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how long should i wait?
hey so i met this guy at the store the other day. he works there and we were talking about movies and then i told him i had to go see if my car is ready. so then he said oh if you want we can go to the movies sometime and he gives me his card and says to call him. he gave me his card. this was on friday, 2 days ago. so when should i call him?
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Guys don't like to play games. Just call him up whenever. Guys don't care if a woman is desperate or not.
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Call him whenever you think the time is right! You should probably call him tommorrow or somthing! dont keep him waiting otherwise he mite go off you! Hope this works out! Good luck!
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I'd call him today while you're still fresh in his mind and it's early enough in the week that you might even get a chance to go see a flick with him this weekend. :)
Two days is plenty enough time to get the "I'm not desperate" message across. And if you're really into the guy, and sparks were obviously flying, then there's no reason to prolong the wait. The longer you wait, the more you may give off the "not interested" vibe.
When calling him, make sure to give him YOUR phone number and say, "Why don't you give me a call sometime when you're free and we can chat some more?" This goes particularly well at the end of your conversation. If he actually initiates the asking-for the number then he's into you, without a doubt.
It puts it in his hands then and you can see how interested he is in you. If he calls within the next couple of days then you've sparked his interest. If he doesn't then maybe you're just another petty girl.
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