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Member Since: January 30, 2011
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Last Update: January 30, 2011
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hey so i met this guy at the store the other day. he works there and we were talking about movies and then i told him i had to go see if my car is ready. so then he said oh if you want we can go to the movies sometime and he gives me his card and says to call him. he gave me his card. this was on friday, 2 days ago. so when should i call him? (link)
Guys don't like to play games. Just call him up whenever. Guys don't care if a woman is desperate or not.


Before I say anything sorry if this is in the wrong category.
I know it sounds stupid but I'm not sure if I'm mean to my friends or just really close. Sometimes I'm kinda rude, not rude rude but joking around, and I'll whack them with a book, like not really hard but playing around, but we whack each other a lot, so. I can also be really stubborn and sometimes I blame them for non-serious things like dropping something, or say I told you so. I like to tell myself I'm not being that mean but I think I am and I feel bad about it. Is this normal or am I mean, and if I am how can I stop? Thank you
*Also I'm 14 and a chick (link)
I know it's fun to be joke around all the time. It's very important to learn when to stop. It can keep you a lot of friends. Other people might not be in a good mood like you all the times. They might have shitty families or lots of shitty things are bothering them. Be understanding and learn to observe them.


im a young female my names sarah, im in middle school. And i have been going to theray for a couple months now..and nothing is changing..and i dont feel anything will ever change. I have literally been AT rock bottom. From being THE MOST funny and social butterfly to being a boring sad depressed girl. Im making some changes, but the cause of my depression and suicide thoughts will always stick with me. I just simply dont care about anyone or anything, and i dont care if i died right now. Dont get mistaken, i am NOT suicial now, i am depressed now, hoping to recover. But i feel like i never will. school, friends, sports, family that used to be a 10 now its a 0. serioulsy, i dont know what to do. those elements in my life have already gone down hill, i feel it would be a miracle if i got to the top again and stayed there, is there any hope at all? (link)
You need to get some some weed or antidepressants. Seriously! If you get in a habit of being depressed, then it's very hard to break out. Talk to your parents about it.


Wife caught lying about old (boy)
friend. (link)
Of course your wife is going to lie to you. That's what most women do best.


I have talked with my son many times about going to college and he has not gone as of yet, and is 35 yrs old. What else can I do to encourage him to go to school, and make a better life for himself. (link)
First of all, he's 35 years old. There is something called "it's too late". He's already used to lack of motivation for so long. It will be a torture for him. I recommend getting him to go to a vocational school. Mechanics, truck drives, social workers all make very good money. Don't think of these as lowly jobs. They're just as good as any other jobs. Colleges these days are a big waste of time, a degree is not worth as much as before. Do you really want to put him into debt? What if he have trouble getting a job after college? You have to think of the whole picture here. The best choice is definitely vocational school.

-good luck!


Hey does any one know any good music sites that i can just let music play from while i do home work on the comp or what ever? (link)
GO on slacker radio and listen to smooth Jazz.


I hate my mom so much she doesn't understand me and I hate the way she acts. (link)
Most women(especially mothers) have lots of mental issues. You need to understand human nature. First of all, I bet she's very selfish. She do not care what harm she inflict on others. She only cares in the end that she get the good feeling of victory. She would rather see you suffer than admit she's wrong. My advice to you is that don't care about her anymore. Don't think of her as a family member. Just ignore her every possible way. If that don't work, just confront her on everything. Make her life difficult as much as possible. You have to be aggressive. If she criticize you, then criticize her back. Better yet, pick out all her mistakes. Laugh at her as much as possible. She will soon learn that you're not an easy target anymore. You see, she picks on you because she can. She's your "mom", what the hell on you suppose to do. Bully's are not just on the play ground. It can sometimes be you own mother. Good luck to you and remember to win the battle. Otherwise she will ruin your entire life.




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