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I think I'm mean to my friends
Before I say anything sorry if this is in the wrong category.
I know it sounds stupid but I'm not sure if I'm mean to my friends or just really close. Sometimes I'm kinda rude, not rude rude but joking around, and I'll whack them with a book, like not really hard but playing around, but we whack each other a lot, so. I can also be really stubborn and sometimes I blame them for non-serious things like dropping something, or say I told you so. I like to tell myself I'm not being that mean but I think I am and I feel bad about it. Is this normal or am I mean, and if I am how can I stop? Thank you
*Also I'm 14 and a chick
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I know it's fun to be joke around all the time. It's very important to learn when to stop. It can keep you a lot of friends. Other people might not be in a good mood like you all the times. They might have shitty families or lots of shitty things are bothering them. Be understanding and learn to observe them.
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Its very good that you think about these things. Its called being self aware. Its an important skill for growing into a likeable adult. You're not perfect. You never will be. But here's a trick - if you learn to laugh at yourself and have a sense of humor about your faults, you'll find others will laugh with you, and like being around you, despite your faults. Strive to be better, but when you mess up, laugh, apologize, and move on.
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