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I like this girl but i dont know how to approach her.
There is this girl at work that i really like. She's my age, 18, and she doesnt go to school yet. About a month ago i sent her a friend request on facebook, she accepted it, but she seems to ignore my messages and chat messages. I keep having dreams about her, where we are together. Everyone i talked tell me to just ask her out. But, im a shy guy and i think that going up to someone who i dont really know and asking them out is wierd or rude. We dont really talk much, and there really isnt much time to talk at work, and work is the only place that i see her. What should i do?
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Try talking to her in person but be patiant and gentle don't go off on her if she feels some type of way. ask her out if everything goes well
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Talk to her when you get the chance but don't seem desperate or creepy. Just say hi or compliment her look or something, if possible talk more until you two are closer then when the time is right ask her out.
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The first step to getting to know someone is by starting off a conversation, Even if it's small talk.
She could very well be the type that doesn't like to talk online, Some woman prefer a guy to approach them in person as they find it more flattering that way. It is not rude or weird to ask someone out you don't really know, As long as she isn't a stranger from out of the blue I don't see anything abnormal about it. Just be yourself, Start off a small conversation and work your way up. If you are a real shy guy...Small talk with body action should give it away. Smiling and complimenting her will give her the hint.
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