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I think we just got worse
hi CD, i'm the girl in trouble with my male best friend. I tried to talk to him yesterday but he seems to be avoiding me. This sucks because I almost told him now he seems to flee when ever I'm coming. I don't know what to think, we're so awkward.plus now i'm second guessing myself. do i give him up and move on or risk it and lose him completely?
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This happened to me and my boyfriend as well. Only it was the opposite when he started to mention that he liked me I freaked out and ignored him... for me it was simply because I thought that he wasn't serious and I REALLY did like him.
I'm not sure what you told him to make things awkward... but I wouldn't stop now. I mean your gonna have to talk about it the sooner the better. Fine a good time and privacy. Tell him that you like him... LIKE him LIKE him.. however you choose to word it. Be frinedly not flirty and tell him that your sorry. You clearly weren't planning on it.. it just happens. I'd tell him that its alright if doesn't feel the same and that you understand (which is a lie of course it will crush any girls feelings but we live) then see what his response is. Make sure to say that you value this friendship and don't wanna lose it. Maybe give him a couple days and see what happens. Ugh I don't know why guys have to be so complicated sometimes... In my opinion they have as much drama as girls do. I hope he comes to his senses, I'm not promising that you won't be let down.. I've learned to expect nothing and hope for the best. Let me know what happens if you want.
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