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so nervous to hangout
I just get so nervous to hangout with guys. Ok so this guy wants to hangout tomorrow but then id have to tell my parents and i know they would be teasing me and some shit idk but I dont know what to do!! And then my nerves get the best of me and I've never kissed a guy...he's 16 im 15 helpppp its tomorrow!
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Not that I can top the answer below but I just wanted to let you know that I sympathise completely. I didn't kiss anyone properly until I was 16, so I was incredibly nervous, but honestly, it's nothing to worry about - you do need to just relax, take it easy and remember that they are just a person, just like you, and will feel exactly the same way.
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Relax, take a deep breath and remember he's probably just as nervous as you. Go into this with no preconceived notions about where this will go. If you look at it as just hanging out with a new friend maybe it'll take some of the edge off. Don't worry about kissing or anything past that. Keep it light, talk about mutual interests, school, etc and you'll be fine. I promise you, we've all been there and have had the initial nervousness. As for your parents, simply tell them this guy is a friend and leave it at that. Afterall, that's what you two are at this point right? It'll be alright :) Hope this helps a bit! Good luck!
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Getting nervous around the opposite sex is very common. Some people get it more than most. Some guys even think its cute sometimes when a girl is nervous around them, but some guys like confidence.
You just have to stay positive in this situation. Kissing a guy for the first time can be very nerve racking, but its nothing to even worry about. Its all instinct. Your lips will know exactly what to do as soon as they meet his. The more you over think the situation, the more nervous you will be, and the more sloppy your kiss will turn out. Just stay relaxed. If you want to do something to surprise him, try sucking on his bottom lip or tongue. If he sticks his tongue in your mouth, stick yours in his and just go in circular motions with each others tongues, or maybe even move it up and down.
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