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my boyfriend cheated on me with my two best friends
so my problem is that my boyfriend had cheated on me with me two bfffe's and i don't know what to do? what do you think i should do?
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Regardless of my having no idea what a "bfffe" is, I think the answer is rather clear. The fact that you are conflicted as to whether you should stay with him or not tells me that he either means a lot to you or you have some sort of dependency issues with him. Either way I'm afraid to say that you can do much better than him.
Cheating at all whilst in a committed relationship can totally damage a persons trust yet it doesn't necessarily have to end that relationship, depending on the circumstances leading to adultery.
However, the fact that not only did he cheat on you twice - but with your best friends - shows that he clearly doesn't care for you and respect you as much as you'd like him to regardless of what he says. A person who loves you or even has a small amount of respect for you just doesn't do that.
It's difficult to give a detailed answer to your question when I don't know the circumstances or anything more of the people involved but from what you've told me it seems to be a no brainer.
Chances are this wasn't the man you were going to spend the rest of your life with. There are many years and many more boyfriends: ones that won't betray you as your partner has. I'd seriously re evaluate not only your choice in boyfriends but in your "friends" as well.
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