Is he interested at all? Getting back out there dating. Meet a guy who’s moving across the world in two weeks. I like him so much already! He’s told me he doesn’t want a commitment or anything serious due to his move. He invited me over to his place to watch a movie, talk, and cuddle. We haven’t had sex. He actually rejected me. But he did give me oral sex first,…….. He contacts me about every other day. But I don’t feel like he’s even chasing me. He said he’ll visit in about a year because he has friends here still and that he and I will see each other again.
We both happen to be getting out of bad marriages. Both of our spouses cheated on us.....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? WingYan answered Saturday January 22 2011, 8:08 pm: There seems to be a definite attraction here. But like he said, he doesnt want anything serious or to be tied down and from what you've described he seems to be reiterating this in his actions and mannerisms. After leaving a troubled marriage some just dont want to be tied down again straight away - as well as him moving.
He definitely appears to want you to play a part in his life in that he's making efforts to maintain a relationship with you but there's really nothing at all to suggest that you should expect anything more than friendship out of him with some benefits on the side.
At the same peoples feelings and circumstances change. there's always a chance he'll want more from your relationship but in the near future dont expect such things from him. Instead maybe try focusing more on getting to know eachother better. Who knows. In a few months or years the dynamic of your relationship could change. [ WingYan's advice column | Ask WingYan A Question ]
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