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A guy at my school is harrassing my gf


Question Posted Friday January 21 2011, 6:25 am

Well this guy is one of those guys that think there cool when there not so he knows I'm going out with her and he keeps saying hot bitch go out with me or ill hurt your bf (me!! Ah) well she told me and said that she will go out with him so I don't get hurt but I said no at the moment no

Me and this guy we hate each other we've had 5 fights all broken up by our group (guys we hang out with) my group was thinking to have a fight 1vs1 every1 gets 1 guy cause I'm 1 of the valuables of the group and gf we set them up with girls and boys,give them advice etc his group is thinking the same thing so there's going to be fight if my gf doasnt go out with him

Should........* gulp*......... let her or not


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WingYan answered Saturday January 22 2011, 8:26 pm:
You're even considering letting your partner go out with a egocentric chauvinist just to stop the both of you getting into fights. You're not exactly winning boyfriend of the year, huh?
Act like an adult and simply ignore him. Encourage your girlfriend to do the mature thing and be firm with him. If his behaviour persists then i strongly suggest you report him to a school guidance counsellor or the police should things get serious.
Otherwise, stay calm, keep above it all and ignore him. He's just simply not worth it.

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sunshine1232 answered Friday January 21 2011, 10:16 pm:
No i don't think you should allow her to fight if
someone is harrasing her you should tell a teacher so they are aware of the problem and can solve it correctly violence doesn't solve anything and it isn't the answer the only thing violence is going to do is cause whoever's fighting to become badly hurt if it gets bad enough if she doesn't want to go out with him then that's her choice there's no need to start a fight over it it won't solve anything the person who's wanting to fight needs to realize that you him or anyone elese can't make the girl go out with him it has to be her choice and her choice only nobody can force her to do something she doesn't want to i don't think fighting is a good idea if whoever were to fight on the school's property they could face getting suspended or have other disciplinary actions be put on them and they'd be getting themselves into more trouble it really isn't worth it :)

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