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hes being a jerk lately
ok my friend is bein a real douchewad lately ,saying i dont care about my soul just because im agnostic and hes christian and all kind of other stuff with my girlfriend and how he hates her and one of my friends whose bisexual got made fun of by him and this is all of the sudden and he never acted like this and if he keeps it up i might have to give him one good hit to the face to snap him out of it and should i even be friends with him even after he apologized cuz im pretty sure hes gonna do it again but i can tell he really is sorry but he might not be able to help himself...so i need advice
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Tell him he's doing a TERRIBLE job of representing the love and forgiveness of God, and he might be the only "Bible" you ever read, so maybe he should represent Christianity with a little more respect, or risk driving people like you away. Then leave him alone. He'll tone it down after a while, I'm pretty sure.
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I know how you feel, I have a friend who likes to shove Christianity in my face when I study religion and I really prefer not converting to Christianity. Sometimes they tend to believe that you have to think the same way and just flat out tell him "Hey, that's not cool. Not everyone thinks the same, that's what makes us different." If he makes fun of your other friends, tell him off, stand up. If he keeps making you angry, warn him that if he's not going to accept you guys for who you are the way you are, that maybe he's just not as good a friend as you thought. It's kind of hard to let friends go, but true friends don't mock you for your opinions.
Don't resort to violence, though, as tempting as it may be, it's not going to help and you'll probably regret it later.
Also, if religion keeps coming up in conversations, change it. It's probably best not to discuss it with him around if he's so defensive about his religion.
Good luck :)
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