For four years I have really 'liked' this guy (Guy A) but he hasn't ever returned these feelings, and I still can't understand why I still 'like' him. At this current moment I am dating another guy (let's call him guy B) but guy B's best friend (Guy C)has a crush on me and Guy C also happens to be one of my best friends, so things are all tense between Guy B and C which makes it weird for me because I don't wanna get involved. The worst part is that as much as I care for Guy B and Guy C, the only guy I can say I could quite possibly be in love with is Guy A. He means the world to me but now I feel like a horrible person because I'm dating one guy, and hurting another when I just love someone else. What do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? miranda_love answered Tuesday January 11 2011, 3:13 am: Be honest to the guy your dating. Tell him you have some feelings for Guy A. He should understand. If you are honest in your relationship he will give you respect and won't be as mad if he finds out later that you like another guy. There's nothing really else to do but just try to say that in the most nicest way possible. Don't feel horrible it happens to everyone. Trust me if you don't tell your boyfriend you have feelings for someone else and he finds out later that you do or if you break up with him and he finds out your in love with someone else....he will be PISSED. So go do it girl. After all he needs to know even if it hurts him. About guy C it's up to you if you want to tell him since he's not your boyfriend at the moment. But I probably would just tell Guy B for now. Good luck your in a tough situation! [ miranda_love's advice column | Ask miranda_love A Question ]
GradingCurve answered Monday January 10 2011, 10:24 pm: Well as much as you care fot Guy A, I believed its impossible to tell what's the value of your love... or infatuation w/him really is. You may come to find out things that ruin the fantasy of being intrigued by him in the first place. You also didn't explain, what type of relations you and this "guy A" have.. Are you in love from afar?
The tenseness between your bf and his friend was always there or at least growing in silence.. until he verbalized an interest in you. You don't wanna be in the middle? Yet when you look up, that's you're location, isn't it? I don't think you should break-up with your bf... The guy whose crushing... let him because, you are responsible for returning advances.
And as for guy a, well if he can't show u whether or not he's interested, maybe its because you know there's something between you 2 that keeps you from finding out this info... and/or pursuing him.
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