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Flirts with me but has a girlfriend
20/f/nj
Okay so long story short, me and this guy from work were seeing each other for about 3 months, a month ago i found out he was seeing another girl along with me from his school, well she gave him an ultimatium to get with other people or go out with her and he took the ultimatium he told me he still liked me but she was convenient since i lived too far away i commute to school.(I live 20 minutes away from his college)
Well at work he still flirts with me, he ignites the flirting everytime i try not to go along with it but i cant help it. He will make excuses to talk to me,push stuff into me,etc i still really like him. And clearly he still likes me and he knows i still like him (i kinda hinted to him i still did). So is he waiting for college to end so he can be with me? Why would he still flirt with me if he has a girlfriend when he picked her? Im so confused. thanks.
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1st you really need to lay down the law on him
you need to tell him you not here for games you a grown women this isnt high school either.
you need to tell him that if he likes you break up with her and we wil try to work things out about living " far " form each other and he does like you he has a gf and he is still flirting with you ? yeah he likes you need to tell him he needs to make up his mind cause your not going to be a sideline
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He's the type of guy who likes to have options. He likes to be wanted. "he took the ultimatium he told me he still liked me but she was convenient since i lived too far away i commute to school."
There's your proof - he looks at girls as "convenient" rather than people he really likes and wants to get to know. If you're cool with being "convenient" then to whatever you want. If you don't want to be used, find a way to make it clear to him that you're not that type of girl.
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The guy can't make up his mind on what he wants, For starters he chose to be with someone else rather than you and not too add he was cheating on you.
1.) The guy obviously can't commit himself to ONE person.
Sure you like him, but lets face it he isn't faithful. Not only did he cheat on you but he basically kicked you to the curb to be with someone who is slightly closer in distance. You are young, There will be many more men out there for you. In the meantime try to keep your distance from him and don't give off the wrong vibe by feeding into his behavior. Show him you won't be the girl on the side lines. Save yourself the stress
No, There is nothing wrong with you. Your ex is an ass and why did he choose her? Well, I can probably nail the fact she is probably easy to get.
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