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need a date for the prom...like this guy but idk what to do
f/16 Okay so i like this named Hamilton and he is 17. I have talked to him maybe twice. That is because i;m a very shy person and it is hard for me to speak up for myself. He is really cute and I want to start talking to him and get to know him but i don't know how to start my plan. The reason i have picked him is because he goes to a different school than me and my friends that know him say he is sweet and we be good for me. The guys at my single are either taken or immature and that is a turnoff. So i guess what i'm asking is how can i will myself to start talking to this guys and hopefully ask him to prom near the end of April.
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Okay heres what you do 1 ask your self is it really that bad to ask him not him ask you??
2 get one of his friends to say good things about you so he would like you and ask you
3 if nothing happends and someone else asks you say yes because it better to go with someone that likes you and you wil have a good time with then to go with someone that doesnt like you just thinks he can sleep with you
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Just find some way to talk to him more and become his friend. I'm also really shy but if you really want this to happen then you need to overcome your shyness and start talking to him like a normal person and then you guys will slowly become friends to where you guys talk all the time.
I do like it better if a guy would ask me but it's all up to you. If you wanted, once you guys are closer, you could hint around it and you don't see much of a response you could be like, "Yeah..I can't find anyone that I would go with. Would you?" Or something like that, you know? Well good luck!
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Ok I'm going to be strictly honest with you asking a guy out to the prom is good and all but he should be asking you to the prom. Because don't you like it when guys pursue you? It's a whole lot better. So to turn your problem around I think YOU shouldn't ask this guy out or talk to him. Let him do it! If he doesn't ask you to the prom it's better than asking him and him saying NO right??? What you need to do is wait...or at least give him HINTS about prom but don't ask him. I hope he asks you though I'm not trying to make him not ask you or you not ask him I'm just trying to help you out because if you get your heart broken from this guy it's because he wasn't interested in you in the first place. I hope you guys go together though. Have fun girl :)
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