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Can't get over him but helping a friend with him
I have liked this guy for a while now I still kinda do it's just that we don't talk anymore. We hung out a lot during the summer we were in this group thing and my one friend ( sara) she would allways say he likes u and I regret not taking chances with him. I guess the only reason I like him is because we have memories and every time I think of them I start to cry now I'm not obsessed I just can't get over him.... The thing is sara and the guy are talking and I told sara that I kinda like him and she said it's ok I don't anything to be akwward between us.. It isn't and now I texther daily and she brings up the guy a lot and it sounds like them two really like each other it reminds me of him and I bc he's doing the same thing with her all flirty and now I ended up giving her advice... I'm not a mean person I just want to know how to get over this guy hen I talk about him and see him every school day it makes me sad and I don't want to interfere it wouldn't be me...:(
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I agree with the person below. You shouldn't keep looking to the past. I totally get where you're coming from. I've been there and it hurts, but I've learned that we need to make ourselves move on by finding someone else and not thinking about what could have been. There are plenty of guys out there. He isn't the only guy and I'm sure there will be someone else for you. You need to put effort into getting over him and when you see him at school, don't be sad or anything because remember, at one point you were there and he did like you. You should feel special about that. So he definitely won't be the only guy out there. Keep looking and keep your head up. Good luck!
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Awwwwww well you could always make new memories with this new guy. You don't always have to look back at the past. Don't worry I do that sometimes too especially my summer loves they were the best!!! But you really need to look at what you have now in your love life. It could be absolutely amazing. There could be guys crushing on you. Or that one guy your talking about you get to see him every day at school and that should be a blessing. Even though you guys don't have many memories right now you could always make something happen. Then you'll look back when it's summer and be really happy about what you did. Just keep making more that's what you need right now. I know your sad and I was just sad the other day too but I thought to myself why should I be sad? Yea summer was great but so is winter and even though school isn't memorable you can still make it great! So give it a try and tell me what happens good luck girly :)
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