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Stuck and Overwhelmed with Problems


Question Posted Monday January 3 2011, 6:26 am

3 years ago financially I was doing great.I had my own apartment and I my place of work was only a couple blocks away to which I walked to everyday.I didn't drive because of a DUI, but I never got my license because I lived in a location that was very convenient for me.

I had saved up a few thousand dollars and I decided to try something different.I was financially ok at the time, but I really wasn't happy.I discovered the financial market, but I couldn't learn it and work 72hrs a week.I left my job of 5 yrs.I lost everything I had saved up during the financial collapse because I wasn't ready for those economic conditions.

I eventually lost my apartment because I couldn't find a job because of the recession and everyone was laying off when I needed a job.I had to move back in with my parents.They live in the middle of nowhere and I don't have a car to get a job in the first place.

On top of everything that has happened I have something wrong with my eyes that I believe might be permanent.I'm seeing a specialist this week.I can barely read and can't see anything at a distance because I have a cloud in the center of my vision.I on the computer screen whole letters of a word are missing and if I watch tv the whole face is gone. If my eyes can't be fixed I might just file for disability and try to work with currencies to establish a capital to trade futures.I don't know if I can drive even if I get my license.

My dad has been really hard on me about everything that has happened.I spent so long working in a factory like my dad wanted for me that I just wasn't happy for myself.Now, even if I could get my eyes fixed I will end up in a factory like my parents want for me.

I want to trade futures in the financial market.That's my passion and what I want to do with my life.If I even mention the financial market to my parents they yell at me.They always put me down.They didn't care for my education growing up and now that I'm in this mess they blame me as well.I just want to be happy.I'm really at the end of my rope.I don't even know where to start.I REALLY need an outside look.PLEASE HELP!


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hitler_the_goat answered Monday January 3 2011, 11:27 am:
oh. haters.. I see.
consider this- you're currently under their roof right now. the first step to getting your shit together for this new career path is to get a job. any job that you are capable of doing. don't tell me you can't somehow get a ride, anything is possible, including getting a bicycle and riding ten miles to work every day. try to save up enough cash to move out of their house. every job has a supervisor, so even if you're working at mcdonald's or some shit like that, there's always a higher-paying job in the company that is within your reach. get promoted, continue saving your money, and start going to night school at the local community college or something. not only will this give you the skills you need to succeed, but it will also potentially get you some contacts within the system. once you get some cronies, they can help you get in.
the world is a simple place, its about three things- who you know, what you want to accomplish, and how hard you are willing to work to accomplish your goals.
good luck
-Gunner

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