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How do you know when your about to cum?

Question Posted Monday January 3 2011, 3:00 am

I have never released cum before during sexual intercourse. What does it feel like before you do it? Like how will I know when Im about to cum, so I can actually finish successfully?

*I've had feelings in the past of feeling like I had to pee really bad, and my ex use to tell me all the time that it was because I had to nut and it was cum building up, and for me to let it out, and when I try to during intercourse, nothing happens, it just hurts.


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AskSinz answered Friday January 7 2011, 7:06 pm:
The reason why it hurts is because your not allowing yourself to cum, if you've reached climax before then its basically the same thing. One thing you could do is just explore what is sexually pleasing to you to see what does make you cum, you have to make sure that your stimulated fully, there could be burning, and you might not be able to stay still, but you just have to go with it, relaxing helps you feel it more and helps you reach it faster. maybe oral sex might help? From my own personal experience, I know because my breathing gets heavier and i have to hold onto something and i can't open my eyes. But if you can't don't feel so bad. You just have to be patient and make sure your relaxed. Like i said, try exploring yourself to see what happens, Hope this helps!!xx

I saw you comment on my feedback, try a vibrator that could really help, im not sure if you've tried oral but for some girls thats where its all at. Don't force it out because then it won't happen, my friend had the exact same problem and she even cried because of it but i told her to relax don't tense up when you start feeling something there it could really hold it back. just keep trying and it eventually will happen, otherwise maybe you just aren't the type to cum. hope this helps!!xx

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geckonumber1 answered Monday January 3 2011, 3:40 am:
That is in fact true, when you get that 'I have to pee' feeling all I can say is that you have to relax, just focus on what feels good and keep pushing through, the longer it builds up like that the better it will feel when you finally do release anyways so just keep going with it.

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