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fighting more and more
my bf and i fight more and more often. first it was once a year, then once a month then once a week and now every other day. over stupid stuff. what do i do? 18/f
thanks.
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the first thing you have to do if find out what your arguing over, if its silly stuff like who left the toilet lid up or he's not cleaning up after himself then what you need to do is talk to each other about it, make compromises with each other in a bid to not argue again or at least argue over something worth your time. if you guys live together or see each other really really often it could be good for you to take time away from each other, because too much familiarity could be causing this xx
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Take some time off from each other. Maybe some distance will help you appreciate each other more and help you see more clearly where you want the relationship to go.
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Just try to compromise. Try to look at his point of view and agree with him in some way. Then ask him if he can look at your point of view. If you do that then maybe you guys will understand each other a whole lot more than when you fight. Believe me it's not fun fighting every day. I think you just need to be in each other's company because sometimes distance can make people fight. But overall you guys just need to keep caring about each other and looking at things at his way and he should look at things your way. Fighting is good in relationships but not all the time. You need some time to be happy too. Hope this helped.
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