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Why do find myself acting distant to people?
I'm a very energetic person and likes to hang out around friends, but I find myself randomly distant to my friends who are close to me at times, I spend time with myself and others equally, but when I'm distant with people I tend to cry at night about why I'm distant with my friends, knowing if I keep doing what I'm doing I will lose people who are close to me,that I'm being distant, yet I still do it even if they reach out to me at times, I don't have the guts to tell them why I'm being distant around them, and I don't want this affecting my relationship with people, it happens to me at times. What should I do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, why are you be distant?
Are you tired? Stresed? Do you need a bit more alone time then you've been getting?
Sometimes all you have to with good friends and turn to them and say "Look, I love you but I really need to be alone right now."
The best thing you can do is pay attention to yourself, so that you know when those times when you'll start to wear out and be distant are coming, and you can polietely excuse yourself.
Nobody is keen and enegretic all the time. The trick isn't ALWAYS being close and perfect. The trick is just being honest and letting people know what you are doing so it doens't surprise them or hurt them.
It is very important to be able to take care of yourself. The better you are at that, the better you'll become at taking care of others around you.
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