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Am I a bad daughter ?
Hello,Hope you can help ,Well im a young teen my mother i love her ive notice i talk horable to her and raise my voice .. Ignore her but i love her she forgives me she buys me every thing i ask for some times she cant a fored it and i go ahead and get fussy again i tell her im sorry ive told her i loved her ..Christmas is near i asked for a pro camara ..She said it cost a lot i got mad She told me ..She can by me a reguler one .. I refused and said then dont buy me nothing ..she got mad .. But just the other day i heard her talking to my dad saying that maybe next year i felt terrible i told her ..Mom i dont want absalutly nothing this christmas huged her and left she came toi me and asked she didnt under stand me i was crying so i had to repeat i said its because youve done so much but my sister told me she got me a camara for christmas ..Am i a bad daughter What can i do to stop being so mean so stupied ?
(I tend to do it a lot ) Thank you
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Are you a bad daughter? There is not enough information here to get a really good feel of who you are to truly answer that question. The fact that you are remorseful when you act bratty when you don't get what you want; says while you may not be the best of daughters your not the worst of daughters either.
What I picked up on though was the fact that you are a "young teen mother". As a mother of any age your focus should be on you child(ren) not solely yourself. Like your mother buying the camera for you even though she really could not afford to do so, because that is what parents do.
You don't say if you asked for any thing for your child. Things like clothes, food, toys and things. I'm thinking that maybe your parents are already providing that stuff and is the reason other things are unaffordable at this time.
What you need is an attitude adjustment. You have brought a child into this world, the child did not ask to be brought into this world. Even though you may be a young teen mother your world stops and you focus on that child for at least the next 18 years. Nothing comes before the well being of that child.
Being a good daughter or a bad daughter is not the question. If I am correct in my assumption that your parents are looking out for the well being of their grandchild, what you need to do is to hug them and apologize for being so selfish. Then ask them to teach you to be a good parent while assisting you to raise their grandchild while you complete your education and can care for their grandchild on your own. If you can honestly do that you will give your parents the best Christmas present ever.
How do I know this? I'm old enough to be your grandfather, that's how.
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I don't think you're a bad daughter, I don't want this to sound rude or anything because that isn't what I'm implying at all, but I think you need an attitude adjustment. Not in a bad way. You even said yourself you feel terrible about the things you do after you do them. Maybe that's a sign saying that you shouldn't do it at all, because it hurts your conscience. And I promise, you'll ( again, i don't want this to sound bad) straighten out as you get older. I used to be the same, and I mean the SAME exact way. It fades with age. Just remember next time, if you feel bad when you do it, why do it again? Just think before you talk, and everything will work out just fine. Oh, and you're not stupid either :] I hope I helped!!
<3 Sam.
p. s. Merry Christmas! ( well soon anyway hehe)
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