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To be friends or not?
In every school there is always an odd one out.
In this case its a girl. I've felt sorry for her.
I try to be her friend but she's impossible! She's rude,Selfish, and controlling. My newest friend has had problems with her. So I've given up all hope. Should I still try to be friends with her or should I not be her friend?
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sweetheart everyone has a problam at school matter its loneness or anything! maby shes the way she is because she knows no1 likes her or maby she gets lods of attension at home? shecould have a family problame! I think you should ether tell your techer or talk to her but dont become a bffl!tell your friend?? hope this helps! if you need more advise or just a chat email advicenators@hotmail.com
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thats a hard situation the first thing i suggest is to help her get a few friends for herself.
The second is to ask urself this: r u actually friends with her?The answer to tht is ur answer. If yes thn remain her friend if not thn...
Do you like this girl or do you talk to her becuase you feel bad for her? Everyone wants a friend but no one wants a pity friend.
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Now you know why this girl is the odd one out. It sounds like she makes it very difficult for people to be her friend. There could be alot of reasons for her behavior. Maybe she's mistreated at home or lives in some sort of bad situation. She could be controlling of others because she lacks control in other situations. Whatever the reason, it isn't fair for you to have to deal with it. I see no reason why you should have to put up with her attitude problems. Forget it and move on for now. In a perfect world this girl will see the error of her ways and change but I wouldn't count on it.
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Hi ! well i belive that you should .. its a great way to kno why shes like that ! and a new friend ..
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The question is do you want to go through what you think she is or what she might pit you through... It depends that do you care a lot for your newest friend like if you really like your new friend you would stick by her side not matter what... Now I get what your saying with the odd one out yes there is allways one of them I say just be friendly you know just say hi make small conversations you don't have to be so close... And also I do the same with the odd one out I sometimes say hi and I try not to ignore her when she speaks to me you know so I say just be nice don't have to become real close!
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