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What would you do if your spouse joined citysex.com?
My husband joined citysex.com
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You have a problem, then. How did you find out? Does he know you know? If not,you need to talk to him ASAP. You need to understand why he would do that. If he brushes it off and says its nothing, don't believe him. Make plans to seek therapy or counseling immediately. If he won't go with you, go alone. Your marriage is in trouble.
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You have asked a good question, one that is hard to answer.
The first question that comes to mind of course is to ask why. Which is the n followed with the answer to how you found out? Where you snooping through your spouses computer history or Email? Both of which show a lack of trust on your part which is a red flag as far as your marriage is concerned.
Possible reasons as to why. Plain and simple curiosity; some of the pictures they post go quite far. Have you and your spouse ever talked about expanding your sex life. If so this could be research. Has your spouse ever said something about you having sex with another person while they watched, a common fantasy among some men.
Mostly if everything is okay in your marriage then I would think this is nothing more than curiosity and voyeurism to see if there is anyone you may know who is into swinging or group sex or even a little extra marital adventure. It does not mean your spouse is cheating, just lustful.
My advice is to talk to your spouse calmly, but be prepared to answer the question as to why you were going through your spouses computer. Once you have calmly discussed the question then you can decide the why of the matter.
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