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Hi I asked you a question about the hj bj..
I will definitely sound like a rookie here by asking this ..but aren't you supposed to use some sort of lube when giving a hj? Do you have to? Do you ask the guy what they prefer to use? Cause can't you use like lotion or even spit? And also, isn't it difficult because you're not facing the same way he is, your doing it from the other side. So wouldn't it be easier to have him lay down?
And should I tell him I've never done it, or just do it and see what he says about it?
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No, you're totally fine for asking. I wouldn't recommend the spit for a hj but the lubes are a great idea. Then after a few times of getting some experience, you can ask him what type of lube he likes. To start out, I would recommend regular baby oil for a lube. You can lay next to him to give him a hj but you have more control when you're kneeling in front of him. That way you can use both hands and stroke his sac while you're stroking him. Now when you're ready to move on to the bj, you can use your natural saliva on his penis and you don't need to spit, that's only in porn. Also you don't want to go hard and heavy but slow and steady. One thing that will drive him crazy if you can tolerate it, is to let him cum in your mouth. You don't have to swallow but let the cum drip out of your mouth along the sides and base of his penis. I hope you let me know how things turn out and good luck.
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