so i've been dating this guy for almost two months....and we really like each other but we have a problem...he is shorter than me. and all his friends hate me so they keep saying all this stuff to get us to break up with each. They he is smoking and he tells me that he's not. and i believe him but then people i dont even no are telling me that? i dont know what to do. i want to talk to him but im afraid he's going to think i dont trust him...help please?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? shelbyray18 answered Wednesday December 15 2010, 12:22 am: Hey,
I know how yuu feel about yyour boyfriend being shorter than yuu beacuse i also have a boyfriend thats shorter than me to. but it shouldnt matter about the height if yuu guys really like eachother. ppl that tells yuu things about him out of no where isnt good. but then again to me it depends on if its females that are coming to yuu about him. females can be very cruel and sneaky. if yuu like this guy so much and yuu dont wanna lose him yuu should talk to him because keeping it bottled in will not do yuu guys any good bcuz then yuu will eventually blow up and have a big arguement. trust me i used to feel the same way with coming to my boyfriend and talking to him about things. but talking to eachother makes things better and mayb e come to a diecent agreement yuu both agree with about the smoking. i also have had thbis problem with my bf before. and eventually i let him smoke but not alot. and he respects that. dont be afraid to talk to him. express yur feelings. :) [ shelbyray18's advice column | Ask shelbyray18 A Question ]
Xui answered Tuesday December 14 2010, 10:10 pm: Communication is the key to any relationship, Ask your boyfriend. Is he lying...We really can't tell you that. However, Let me point out something
In almost every relationship there is always some sort of criticism, There will always be a person or persons that will disapprove and sometimes people will even get jealous. When jealousy comes to play sometimes people will say and do anything to cause stress an arguments on a couple. You have to trust your boyfriend, If you don't your relationship is going to be doomed. If you suspect your boyfriend of doing things, YOU need to talk to him openly about how you feel and why you feel the way you do. Don't let someone tell you things because sometimes their intentions are to get you to believe it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.