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We aren't getting pregnant and we don't know why?
I am with my boyfriend for very very long time, and we try to have a baby, but i do not get Pregnant, i was by the Dr, and my boyfriend too. they say everything is ok to keep trying, it would happen. 7 months we try and try and nothing happen. what can we do?
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There is such a thing as trying to hard. Getting pregnant is not as easy as one would think. As I'm sure you are aware of it is a very complicated process. While some couple can conceive almost by just thinking about it other couples struggle to conceive. Seven months is not a long time to go without conceiving, especially if you were on birth control for a long time.
First: If you have not already been to a fertility specialist then make an appointment to see one. Your family doctor and OB/GYN can only do so much for you when it comes to fertility. If you are struggling to conceive then it is time to see a specialist. In this instance they are the fertility doctors.
Second: Relax don't try so hard. You know the old saying about a watched pot never boils. Making a baby can be the same way if your trying to hard. Go back to just making love when the mood hits you. Take your time. Don't worry where you are in your cycle, let mother nature take her course. If there is nothing wrong medically between the two of you then when mother nature says the time is right it will happen.
I have a friend who thought he and his wife would never conceive. They did all the doctors and the injects and nothing happened. They finally stopped, started to look into adoption and one day the stick turned blue.
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Hi,
You can: make sure he cums inside of you during sex and most importantly: get a second opinion! (Doctors rarely find a problem the first time they check (if there is one) and sometimes even the third time). Otherwise.. just do what this doctor told you: keep trying. Usually when two people cannot have a baby, it has something to do with their genes. Maybe your genes when mixed cannot make a baby or there is a problem with your/his genes. This is just a thought.
It only takes one sperm to become pregnant... so Get a second opinion and Keep trying! Use different positions and try new things to keep the sex interesting for the both of you in the process. In time, you will have a baby <3
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Generally it's not considered a problem until you've been trying for 24 months.
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