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I've had sex before... But I am embarrassed to give a HJ&BJ
20-female.
So, I've never given a guy a hand job or blow job before. I've never had a serious relationship ..maybe this is why? I've never been comfortable enough? But I've had sex before & I love it. It's pretty strange. Anyways I would be up for trying this I'm just embarrassed because I've never done it before! How can you tell a guy that you've never done this without sounding like a complete idiot? Whenever there was a time I had the chance to give one ..I just couldn't try because I was embarrassed (of course I've never told the guys I've never given one) I've been talking to this guy for a while and I feel we will start dating soon. So I don't want to mess it up with him. I have a feeling he think I've already done basically everything with a guy. So when we do start getting physical, how can I let him know that I've never done it but would be willing to try. Would it be a turn off that I never have done this before?
Any advice on what I could say ..please?
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be honest and have fun learning something new. most people will not make fun of you . I know the first time I tried new things I felt kinda out of sorts but you get over it fast.
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Of course the best time to try either of those things would be that time of the month when you're not going to have regular sex. No guy is going to turn down a hj or bj even if you don't think you're very good at it. The best way to get things going is to start with the kissing and then tell him you'd like to take care of him tonight. While you're kissing him, pull his pants and underwear down and slowly stoke his penis. After you have gotten him hard, push him down on the bed or the couch and keep slowly stroking him. After a few minutes he should be ready to orgasm and you can pick up the pace and most guys love to have their balls stroked at the same time. This should be enough to send him over the edge. You can try the same technique at another time when you're ready to use your mouth. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Understand that being experienced is not everything in a relationship is neither is sex. As it plays a big part in relationships, Everyone learns one way or another and sometimes we learn a little later as well. This is nothing to be ashamed about or embarrassed about. When that times comes, You and your spouse will hopefully trust one another and can openly discuss the subject. When the talk comes, You can explain the situation in a mature manner. Express that you feel nervous, and you are a little unsure of what to do. This is also not something to feel ashamed about if your spouse is mature at all then he should understand how you feel. Respect, Trust and Honesty play a huge role. Don't ever feel ashamed about something like that. However, Don't jump the gun either slow down a bit until you two actually dated awhile.
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