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Guys and dating
Helpppp. Ive been going to an all girls school for all my life and for highschool ill be going to a co-ed school.how would i be able to get used to guys?when would i know that itll be a good time to date?and how would i be able to get their attention?
By btw im 14 and female
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A co-ed school will be a pleasant change for you. All girls feel better when they are around guys. However, your first priority needs to be your grades. You will always be making new friends and boyfriends, but you can never be able to go back and fix your grades (for the most part)The bottom line is that your grades will follow you forever and always be important to where you go in life. Your friends are important to, but not your first priority.
When you first go to your new school, it is important to be nice to everyone, no matter how annoying they are.
This year I went to a new high school, and I found that if you are mean to one person you don't know, its like being mean to about 10-20 people. When you act with the tiniest disrespect for someone then they will go and tell their friends. Then later one when you meet them, they might think that you are mean as well and not even talk to you.
Now, I can tell you are excited to go to a school with guy. I would be too! But my opinion is that it is not the right time to date. Not because of your age or anything but because of the label it will give you. If you walk into school, being the new girl, and then in two days your already dating someone that might give people the wrong impression of yourself, if you know what i mean ;)
However, if you do want guy attention I think you should just act like yourself. If you act like a totally different person to the guy you are dating, it will drive you crazy. it would just be easier to handle one personality.
My last piece of advice is to put yourself out there. When I was an incoming freshmen at my new school I was very nervous and scared. I would wear some pretty crazy outfits, no matter how uncomfortable, but every time I would get compliments, from girls and guys. I know that always made me feel special.
Sorry for writing so much..but I really hoped this helped :)If you need anymore advice just ask:)
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the most important thing is to just be yourself. don't try to change yourself just to impress guys.
one more tip coming from a high school senior.. high school is about school, academics, getting into college, and being successful. don't get caught up with social statuses. thats what i did my first year in high school. i was so worried and stressed about cliques and being in the right group. my second year i realized how stupid i was to be that concernced with it.. its honestly just a waste of time if you worry about it that much.
so yeah, just be yourself. be nice. friendly. be who you are. let the dudes come to you. don't go looking for them. same thing with friends, let them come to you. don't be desperate.
as for dating, you'll know when the right time is. after you meet a few guy friends and start connecting with that one guy and you feel special around him and he makes you smile, then he could be the mr special. just dont stress about it. let things happen naturally
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