Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 3:00 pm
So i have this friend. he and i hang out a lot and he gives me hugs all the the time.he pokes me tickles me he leans his head on my shoulder when im driving and a couple of times when we go to the movies he literally put my head head on his shoulder. and he is always asking me questions about guys i like my past relationships...so then he kept pestering me to tell him one day and i texted him it was him. he never replied. but the next day when we hunjg out he acted the same way he always does hugging me and stuff. so is this what normal guy friends do or am i just mixing my signals up like crazy? please help me...
Additional info, added Thursday December 9 2010, 5:44 pm: also did i forget to mention everytime we hang out going to movies out to eat or even getting something to drink at a store he wont let me pay for it!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Wednesday December 8 2010, 4:42 pm: Hey there :)
Aw well from what you have said it definitely looks like he his expressing an interest in you. You are not reading your signals wrong they appear to be very much there!
The problem is he is probably nervous and confused.
He may not have replied because maybe he didn't know what to say? Guys believe it or not get just as worried about these things as we do :)
He was probably analising what you said trying to figure out if you were serious etc.
You need to literally ask him out straight does he like you. There is no point in wasting time second guessing as you might both miss out on a great opportunity I know its scary but think its worth it to know.
That way you will also know for sure if he isn't just messing around with you,although he sounds like a pretty nice guy.
But be careful keep your guard up. Guys sometimes don't know what they wan't and can mess with a girls emotions intentionally or unintentionally.
So just talk to him find out whats going on :)
I wish you the best of luck and hope things work out
Much <3
Jess 17/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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