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How do I tell him I am pregnant?
17/f so im pregnant obviously and i went to the doctor and they gave me pills that is going to slow down my babys heart beat and than im going to get the abortion operation. the dad of the baby is this guy that ive been going out with off and on for 2 years. he was my first and i love him. but we recently had a falling out and he doesnt know any of this. i tried to tell him one time that i was pregnant but he gave me a freaked out look so i said just kidding. i dont know what to do or if i should tell him again? or if he even cares. please help
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Please reconsider. You don't want an abortion I can hear it in your question. You refer to it as "my baby". Thats right, thats your innocent baby who needs you. You are just scared but it will be ok I promise as a mother of a 1, 2, and 4 year old baby boys. When your baby grabs your finger with their tiny little hand. . .
You can make it. It may not be easy but there is a lot of help out there. Go ahead and tell the father. It is his responsibility as well. He can help in the worry and stress and enjoy in the love of your beautiful creation sent from God.
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Well of course you need to tell him, in my opinion. He is going to be freaked out once you tell him, but don't get scared. Just tell him you're going to get an abortion, and see what he says.
Maybe he'll want to be with you through the whole process, maybe not. But you shouldn't be scared, it will be nice to have him with you considering he was your first and you love him. He wouldn't have looked freaked out if he didn't care.
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Best of luck.
xx
Goddess bless your baby.
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Hey there :)
Okay in my opinion I feel you need to tell him.
Otherwise its just going to keep eating away at you.
you have been together two years he deserves to know. Of course he will freak out as I am sure you did pregnancy is a big deal at 17.
He probably felt overwhelmed. You need to sit down and explain to him whats going on that your getting an abortion tell him you are sorry you told him you were kidding but his reaction freaked you out.
you wonder if he even cares by telling him you will be able to find out.Your boyfriend should be there for and support you and your decisions. If he cannot do that I'm afraid to say you may need to rethink your relationship as there is no glossing over the fact that this is a big deal.
By not telling him you will be pretending the issue never happened A) thats not healthy and B) like I said before it will eat away at you.
You need to know how your boyfriend will handle this for the future if he will be able to stand by you in tough situations. Its better to find out sooner rather then later.
I hope this made sense and helped you.
I wish you the best of luck and if you have anymore questions please inbox me anytime :)
Much <3
Jess 17/f
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