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Talkling to a girl
So i met this girl in the beginning of school, and i think she is beutiful. But the problem I have is I can't talk to her. I'll try to walk over to her and talk to her, but I get to nervous. What should I say to her or do?
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start off slow.
start with a smile. look at her when she's not looking and then when she looks at you, glance away. and then look back. and then smile :) teeth showing.
depends on the type of girl, but i know that i love guys who are shy and cute. its adorable haha. but i also know that it can be frustrating because i prefer to have guys make the first move. but thats just me. this girl could be the opposite. she could like very brave guys.
you can either be shy and make her think you're adorable and wait for her to make the first move (but be careful because if you wait too long, she could find another guy). or you can be courageous and make her surprised and make the first move and catch her off guard.
so yeah, start off with a smile. then move on to saying hi casually. if its in the hallways or just in class. just say hi. and then walk away. that lets her know that you recognize her and she's not just another girl in a class. then once you say hi a few times, compliment her. girls loove compliments. even if its corny like "i like your binder" sometimes the things you say out of the blue become the most memorable things. who knows, she could find it funny and then you 2 would have an inside joke.
which is another thing to consider. try to find something you 2 have in common, make a joke about it. and then the next time you see her, bring up that joke. ta da! inside joke between you 2 and everytime you see her she'll think of the inside joke.
also, try doing little things like noticing if she got a hair cut or if she changed her necklace. comment on it. let her know that you notice her. open the door for her. if she drops something, pick it up and smile. if you have the courage, say "you dropped this. here you go. you're welcome". dont forget the smile :) buy something (not too big) like candy or something you think she would like and say- do you want this? i dont want this. maybe even write her a note in class and be like- i'm bored. whats up? she will think its funny. crack a joke too. maybe even a corny pick up line?? here's one of my favs-
you: how much does a polar bear weigh? her: i dont know. you: enough to break the ice. hi. my name is ______.
its an easy yet funny way to talk to her and "break the ice" between you 2.
be brave. she wont bite. worse case= she could think you're weird and walk away. she's not gonna slap you or yell at you.. there's really nothing to be scared of. so what if she might not like you?? you can find another girl who will like you for you.
last thing, just be you. don't change who you are just to impress her. if you act like yourself, you'll know if she likes you for you, or if she likes you for someone you're "pretending to be". get it? just be yourself and let everything happen naturally. everything happens for a reason.
go get her :)
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