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feeling lonely and friendless all the time
I always feel alone. I also feel that I'm friendless... In school, I feel that everyone doesn't like me and they don't care about me. Therefore sometimes I'm emoing in school... I don't know how to tell my mum and ask an advice from her so I really feel isolated. Somehow, I feel that my friends always giving me an irritated look when I'm around and they address that look to me... I also have this feeling that I'm just a burden to everyone.. I feel that I don't belong among my friends.. I feel so small and useless when I'm among my friends in school... I feel like I'm living in this world alone... Am I just being oversensitive or paranoid? And if I do, how to overcome it? I am 15 yrs old. Thanks.
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hey, don't feel bad. you're not the only one. trustt mee.. there are tonss of people out there who feel isolated. i'm not sure how big your school is. but my school is one of the biggest in the state and i know a lot of people that feel like this.
the best thing you can do is to do what makes you happy. you'll get friends by doing the things you like, because then other people who enjoy those things too will connect with you better and you'll get along easily :)
as for your old friends.. if they make you sad or unhappy. you could either ditch them or try talking to them and let them know how you feel. tell them exactly what you told us. that you feel like they give you cold and dirty looks and that you feel unwanted around them. if you decide to talk to them, and they still don't change, then it might be time to find a new group of friends. friends who will make you happy and appreciate you for who you are.
i know it seems pretty complicated, trying to get a group of friends that like you. but honestly, if you just relax and let them come to you without struggling and worrying, it will be 1000 times easier. when i was your age, i felt the same way. i had so much pressure on me because i thought i needed to have a best friend. but i realized that it doesnt matter. i have better things in my life, like sports, art, family, music, my dog. i have other things to make me happy. i joined a cool class that i enjoyed and i met a nice girl there and next thing i know we planned a sleepover and had a blast and we became best friends :) just dont stress out about it. itll happen.
good luck and inbox me if you have any more questions :)
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