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penis problems
My boyfriend 20 years old, and the first time we had sex... It was difficult. It was his first time, but he got soft once he put the condom on. I was thinking it could be the condom, maybe it was too tight on him. But later when we kept trying, it was able to stay up. But he still has this problem now, it has been 5 months and during sex, if he goes on for more than 15 minutes, his penis gets soft during sex. He says it feels good, but he doesn't understand why it is going down. We tried different condoms, but it still does the same thing. We have to stop after the first time it gets soft, wait for 5 minutes, then get another condom so he can finish the second time. What is wrong and what can we do? Thanks!
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My ex boyfriend and i had the same problem. there is nothing wrong with his penis. before having sex maybe try to give him a handjob. it always worked for my ex and i. hope this helps! xoxo, beaniebaby
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Have him see an urologist. This is a doctor that is a specialist that will know if there's anything wrong with the function of his reproductive organs. If there is they can treat it.
There are things you can do that are temporary. If you go to an adult novelty store for people 18+ you can get plastic rings that don't cost much that is meant to trap blood into the penis and keep it there.
It's designed for people with your problem and it works well for most from what I've read in the past. Ask any employee in there about the product and they'll know exactly what you're talking about.
This also can be do to medication he might be on and side-effects, nerves or irrational fears around sex. You need to find out either way but for now there are temporary fixes available.
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