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Okay. There's this guy. We've only been dating for three and a half weeks but I can't do it. It was a mistake. I just can't handle a boyfriend right now. I feel like a bitch breaking up with him so early and I still wanna be friends but I can't do it anymore! I don't know what to do but I feel like shit when I think about being with and I feel like shit thinking about dumping him because it's not his fault... Help! I'm 15/F he's 17/M (link)
Well you dont want him to wait longer and have him get to close to you and then dump him. so its better now than never. dont use the old excuse, "its not you, its me." say why you dont think its gunna work out. make sure to point out you still want to be friends but right now isnt the best time for you guys to date.


My boyfriend 20 years old, and the first time we had sex... It was difficult. It was his first time, but he got soft once he put the condom on. I was thinking it could be the condom, maybe it was too tight on him. But later when we kept trying, it was able to stay up. But he still has this problem now, it has been 5 months and during sex, if he goes on for more than 15 minutes, his penis gets soft during sex. He says it feels good, but he doesn't understand why it is going down. We tried different condoms, but it still does the same thing. We have to stop after the first time it gets soft, wait for 5 minutes, then get another condom so he can finish the second time. What is wrong and what can we do? Thanks! (link)
My ex boyfriend and i had the same problem. there is nothing wrong with his penis. before having sex maybe try to give him a handjob. it always worked for my ex and i. hope this helps! xoxo, beaniebaby


Hello , so okay i'm so scared , I told him before I didn't want anything to do with a blowjob or sex right ? so okay we hung out and so , he started to undress me , and he later wanted a blowjob so what else... I went down on him okay and he cummed in my mouth but he was feeling his thing at the same time and later he used that same hand to go up me and im so scared and later I was on his shaft bare but wasn't on his head where it was cumming I kept saying no and then by accident he just touched and it wasnt cum .. but when I got home I put my finger up and seen clear liquidy with white stuff in it , pregant please help me

thank you ,
betty (link)
i see why you are so worried and scared. but the thing is if his penis was not in you at all then you couldnt be pregnant. if you are still concerned take a pregnancy test. hope my advice helped! be careful next time. xoxo, beaniebaby


How do I know if I am depressed ? and If I am depressed how do I tell my parents I'm only 15 can I be depressed at such a young age ? It's just I'm happy when I'm around people but when I'm alone I feel so sad but even when I'm around people inside I'm sad too , and sometimes I think about suicidal things ):
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15 years old
Female (link)
even tho you are at a young age, you can still become depressed. if you were taking any kind of medication when you started to feel this way stop taking it immediatly. your thoughts of harming your self could be from your depression or possibly things tht go on around your home. i think you should maybe go see a counselor or talk to your doctor. hope ya get better soon! xoxo, beaniebaby


Okay...wow where to start.
So my friend introduced me to this girl awhile back and at first it was nothing but like a little crush. I didn't even know she liked me until my friend brought it up sort of jokingly. Since then, she's been really touchy and close to me, despite the fact she has a girlfriend and all who left for college this year.
And within the past month, we've gotten really 'close' both like...emotionally and romantically and physically and it's gotten out of hand. I've spent the night at her house so many times now but...no not 'spent the night' in the terms you're probably thinking.
About a week ago she told her girlfriend Kelly and since then they've been at odds. They're still together and Nicole (the girl) is always complaining how she can't decide between me and her girlfriend. And it's really wearing me down.

I mean, I can't just say that I don't want to be a part of it anymore or tell her to just make up her mind since like....I know if I did she'd just go run to Kelly and make up. Supposedly according to our mutual friend, she really likes me but I can't help but feel like a sort of distraction when kelly isn't here. And I told nicole that on many occasions, but she just sort of gets upset and says that it's not like that, she's just confused.

I really care about her, and I've pretty much wrapped my life around her now, and she's sorta done the same thing for the whole situation. And I don't know what to do anymore. Anyone? (link)
ohkay so i have the vision this is a (please dont be affended when i use this term.) lesbian situation? well it seems like you and nicole are inlove. i think if she loved kelly as much as she loved you she wouldnt go behind kellys back like tht. she obviously has feelings for her bc she wont let her go. you need to just confront nicole and just come straight out and tell her it isnt right for her to have both of you. it may hurt her and possibly you but this rlly needs to be discussed. xoxo, beaniebaby


when i lay down in bed my boobs hurt so bad why is that im only 12 and i have huge boobs whats wrong with me (link)
girl, theres nothing wrong with you. your still at a young age and at 12 your body is still growing and developing. it is most likley just your boobs growing or getting bigger if you will. dont worry, its just part of being a girl! hope my advice helps! xoxo, beaniebaby


Hi i am fifteen years old and my boyfriend and i have just started performing oral sex. i gave him head today and we dry humped a lot. his penis is curved upwards so its easy to with clothes on. anyways, he was wearing underwear and jeans and i was wearing underwear and jeggings. i don't know if he cummed but he deff pre cummed in his underwear while we were dry humping. i straddled him a lot and then i laid down and he went on top of me and humped me a lot. again, his penis is curved upwards so like i could feel it in there but not completely becuase we wre wearing clothing. i thought that we were for sure good/protected cause of our clothes but i was changing into new sweats and i discovered a wet stain in the back of my underwear where my butt is and i freaked out jumped in the shower and scrubbed my vagina with a wash cloth with soap and i made sure that i washed my hands before. i then changed my underwear. is it possible for me to be pregnant because i really don't want to i'm only fifteen ten years ago i was five.. hahaha but a lot of people think it's just butt - cum if there is even such thing. no, he did not dry hump me from behind. my friends think that i was cumming and it dripped to the back or it came from my butt what do you think oh yeah and i've only ever gotten my period twice in my life. the first time was in jan. when i was 13 and the second time was a year later in jan when i was 14. do you think even if it did get in it would be harder for me to get pregnant because of how irregular i am? easy 5 points (link)
i assure you tht you are not pregnant. most likley it was from you. since you and your boyfriend have been having sex alot it is just you reacting to all of the.. "dirtyness" you could say. lol. dont worry girl! if your that worried you could always start using the pill. unless you are already on it. i hope my advice helped! xoxo, beaniebaby.




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