Member Since: November 28, 2010
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My name is akshay and i am fifteen years old. I am very lean and thin. I am very tensed about my weight. My weight is approximately 45 kgs. I don't play much and stay away from games and sports, because i don't want to burn too much calories by indulging in sports. I know that by exercising, i will become a healthy individual. But i think that if i do exercise i will decrease my weight. Is this thought correct? On the other hand, however much i eat, there's on increase in my weight. I have taken 3 months of weight gainers, but still there's no hope of weight gain. Please advice...... (link)
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hey=)
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Okay...wow where to start.
So my friend introduced me to this girl awhile back and at first it was nothing but like a little crush. I didn't even know she liked me until my friend brought it up sort of jokingly. Since then, she's been really touchy and close to me, despite the fact she has a girlfriend and all who left for college this year.
And within the past month, we've gotten really 'close' both like...emotionally and romantically and physically and it's gotten out of hand. I've spent the night at her house so many times now but...no not 'spent the night' in the terms you're probably thinking.
About a week ago she told her girlfriend Kelly and since then they've been at odds. They're still together and Nicole (the girl) is always complaining how she can't decide between me and her girlfriend. And it's really wearing me down.
I mean, I can't just say that I don't want to be a part of it anymore or tell her to just make up her mind since like....I know if I did she'd just go run to Kelly and make up. Supposedly according to our mutual friend, she really likes me but I can't help but feel like a sort of distraction when kelly isn't here. And I told nicole that on many occasions, but she just sort of gets upset and says that it's not like that, she's just confused.
I really care about her, and I've pretty much wrapped my life around her now, and she's sorta done the same thing for the whole situation. And I don't know what to do anymore. Anyone? (link)
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I think if she really matters to you..you would try and work it out if she gets upset it means she cares.If it takes to long and she can't decide then to her your not more important then her girlfriend..i hate to say. If shes commited to the relationship and really wanted to be with you she would make it happen..if shes having second thoughts and cant make up her mind it means she likes both of you the same. if i were in your position i would say dont give up if you really like her and want to be with her..if she takes to long to decide leave.
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