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Okay. There's this guy. We've only been dating for three and a half weeks but I can't do it. It was a mistake. I just can't handle a boyfriend right now. I feel like a bitch breaking up with him so early and I still wanna be friends but I can't do it anymore! I don't know what to do but I feel like shit when I think about being with and I feel like shit thinking about dumping him because it's not his fault... Help! I'm 15/F he's 17/M
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Well you dont want him to wait longer and have him get to close to you and then dump him. so its better now than never. dont use the old excuse, "its not you, its me." say why you dont think its gunna work out. make sure to point out you still want to be friends but right now isnt the best time for you guys to date.
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I know you feel like it but you can't help how you feel. Its better to say how you feel now rather than later! Its not right to drag on in a relationship where you just don't feel anything or don't want the relationship to continue for some reason. To not say anything to the other person in the relationship is not fair. You need to tell him how you feel and that you don't want a relationship right now. He may be hurt but its better to do it now rather than later!
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You need to do whats right for you first before you devote yourself to anyone else. Tell that to him, and if he really likes you, he will understand and remain a friend.
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