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How do I stop being obsessed with my teacher?
im 16 years old and I have a 26 year old blond with the most amazing body ive ever seen she's so sexy.. she is driving me crazy I get aroused just thinking about her and just can't stop staring at her pic and she is all I think of at night. I fantasize about kissing her and sometimes more, do you think this is a problem that i should tell someone about? I have never had a girlfriend lots of friends but no one that has ever had a special bond, i feel this special bond with my young teacher and I keep fantasizing about her and crave her body, is that weird? every time i think of her i feel retarded like i have marbles in my mouth and i can't speak she's that hot. It just makes me feel so crazy like I want to punch something, and she's married too and now I'm so freaking jealous of her husband it hurts so much I think I might throw up, I keep thinking she hates me or thinks I'm stupid as well, any help is welcome i think im in love with this girl she haunts my fantasies daily like other girls aren t good enough anymore all i want is her
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You hit it right on the head with the last line. Fantasy.
You're 16 and you've never been liked back. Your standards are low, in that this woman who you barely know (trust me, as a person who's your teacher you barely know her) is someone you think you might be "In love" with.
The answer to this is to ignore her as much as possible and try to find a girl you like around your age.
I'll give you a little tip. When you "fall in love" with someone like this where the other person pretty much doesn't know you exist in a romantic way, it skeeves people out. Any rational person who's got someone claiming to love them when you don't really know each other is going to know that you're in love with the idea of the person, not who she is in real life. As long as you don't know her she can be your perfect fantasy woman when you're alone at night rather than being who she is, a person you've probably never actually met.
Focus your attentions on people you're actually capable of dating. The "other girls aren't good enough" is just a line of bullshit you tell yourself because you're obsessed with a teacher and have no other apparent opportunities to bond with another chick. Dating doesn't just happen. You've got to express interest in people and get to know them for them to do the same. It's mutual. What you've got right now is not mutual, it's just you fawning over someone who will never be the slightest bit interested in you.
Last, masturbate more, if you're consistently this horny. It'll die down in a few years (somewhat).
Oh, and a tip. As much as it will probably be a blow to the ego, whenever you're finding yourself thinking about her too much remind yourself of one simple fact.
She's got a decade on you. While later in life that might not be a huge gap, where she is and where you are in your lives right now, she thinks of you as a child.
Just throw that up into your mental processes. It's kinda like waking someone up with cold water, not all that pleasant, but if you really realize the truth of that simple statement it should go a long way towards killing your latent attractions.
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