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is it possible to be in love with some one after only knowing them for a couple of weeks?
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No.
Real love involves knowing, accepting, and appreciating the details of who a person is. These things take years to learn. I've been with my wife for over six years now and married for one and a half. I still find out new things about her every so often. A few weeks is not enough to really know a person in any way, shape, or form.
You can be plenty infatuated. That should be fine for now. If you feel the need to term it Love I'd say you don't really know what love is, yet.
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this is such a biased question. it can go either way really... you can look at this way- you feel that strong connection and its just that feeling YOU KNOW it will work out. you can't describe the feeling but when you 2 are together you just know something is right. that is called love. love doesnt technically mean getting to know someone well enough and then falling in love with them. it could mean that. but not necessarily. love can just mean that you have the special feeling around them, even if you dont know that person well enough. for example- say you're going to buy a puppy from the shop. you see one and you just have the incredible feeling like you know this is the right puppy. even if you dont know much info about it.. you still have that gut feeling that says its right. that could be love
or you can look at it this way.
you only know you love someone if you know them well enough. a few weeks doesnt give you much time to get to know them, therefore you probably dont love them.
so it really depends on how YOU feel. in my opinon, love could be anything for anyone. for me, its that gut feeling that says its right. gut feelings/instincts are almost always right for me. so when i get that feeling, i know its right.
however, for someone else.. love could mean that they need to get to know the other person first. you see what i'm getting at? love is different for everyone.
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I don't think so. Being in love with them is a bit too much, especially after a few weeks. It's not that I'm cynical but I just think that you can't possibly KNOW them after a couple weeks so how can you be in love with them you know? You might have really strong feelings and want to stay with them to get to know them more but what you love is only what you've been exposed to and so I don't believe you can really say you love them. It's just my opinion though. Go with what you feel and take a risk. Good luck! Hope I helped x.
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